Ten steps of making a happy family

1. Focus on outcomes not problems
2. Focus on feedback not failure
When sharing negative information always deliver it in a constructive way. Share how things could be better not how they went wrong

3. Focus on Possibilities 

- Possibilities are endless
Keep your family looking to the future and not to the past.

4. Understand roles

Clearly communicate that every part of the family has a role to play

5. Letting go of the belief that the parent must always be the leader

6. Be positive

Set positive goals that the family believes are achievable and worthwhile

7. Have clear visions

8. Continue to learn and grow

Things change so change with them. The world is not he same as it was last year or five years ago

9. Recognize people don't function in a vacuum Communicate - Communicate
10. Go after what you want

Action is better than words. Model this behavior and the rest of the family will do the same