Broken Heart

When your heart is broken it is the saddest thing in the world. All your energy leaves you and everything in your life seems to lose all meaning. You gave your heart and soul to this love, and now it is no more. How can your heart ever be whole again? . Although a broken heart is painful, it brings a person to turn to G-d. He realizes that he is ultimately alone in the world except for G-d who is always there to comfort him. 

If you succeed in cheating someone,
Don't think that the person is a fool...
Realize that the person trusted you
much more than you deserved ...!!

Broken Trust is like a melted Chocolate,
No matter how u tried to freeze it,
it will never return to its original Shape..! 

Together forever, never apart. Maybe in distance, but never in heart

Preserving a friendship requires many skills. One of the most important of these is the ability to say I'm sorry. We all make mistakes. Hurting each other from time to time is inevitable, especially in a close friendship. Some people are incapable of apologizing, because they are unable to admit that they may have made a mistake. There is no way for a friendship to last without apologies. Saying I'm Sorry in a sincere and compassionate way will preserve your friendship and deepen the bond that you share.

Janeth Manongi

                                                                       Beatrice Mbuya

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

How to Overcome Loneliness

get involved with people.You have to step out of your isolation and find a way to get connected to the human race. There’s nothing more healing to the soul than to experience the love and the support you can only get from being involved with other human beings.  We all need to feel like we have a place in this world, that we matter to another living soul, that we hold some importance to somebody else.

get involved with people. You need to be able to step out of your own problems, out of your own pain, and contribute to somebody else’s life. Involvement with other people, providing emotional nutrition for somebody else is a magical elixir for your own frozen soul. When you isolate and disconnect from the world, you feel empty as your life is void of meaningful contact with others. Feeling alienated from the rest of the world drains your spirit of hope and purpose, the thought that your life matter


The only way I know of to put an end to the pain that you experience from feeling isolated and alone is to get involved with the human race. And the only way I know of to get involved with the human race is to take action. To get more involved with people requires of you to be more proactive and less passive. So it’s up to you. Let’s get busy and create a plan of action that will enable you to slowly but surely get [re]connected to the human race. Here are some suggestions for you to consider. See if you can construct a plan of action that you can begin tomorrow and take the next thirty days to execute. Wait and see what a difference this will make to your emotional and spiritual well-being.

Sad Love story

There was a boy who a loved a girl from deepest corner of his heart... that girl loved him too after 2 months of their relation girl wanted boy to marry her how could he as both of them were teens and boy was not sure with his career... after 2 years when everything was ok boy asked that girl to marry him but she denied because she didnt wanted to marry against her family.. boy kept silent he tried a lot to convince her as boy was predicting his family will force her to marry someone else... he waited for months and years kept trying to convince her every day or every next day he repeats the same topic but she didnt changed her decision after some time boy became the patient of psychologist nothing changed between them girl was not ready to change her decision time gets passed boy was silent all the times he lost his physical strength as well and finally he died somehow as he failed to marry the girl he loved

Maite Perroni Biography

Date of Birth

9 March 1983, Mexico City, Distrito Federal, Mexico 

Birth Name

Maite Perroni Beoriegui 

Nickname

Mai 

Height

5' 3" (1.60 m) 

Mini Biography

Maite Perroni Beoriegui was born in March 3, 1983 in Mexico City, Distrito Federal. She is a Mexican singer and actress. Maite gained international popularity as a member of the successful group RBD.

Maite Perroni was only eleven months old when she and her family moved to Guadalajara, the capital of the state of Jalisco in Mexico. Her father, Javier Perroni, was transferred to that city by his job, where the Perroni family lived for twelve years. She has two brothers; Adolfo, who is three years younger, and Francisco (Paco), who is nine years younger than she. Maite, or "Mai" as her closest friends call her, studied acting in Televisa's Centro DE Educación Artistica (CEA) in the year 2000, completing two years of a three year program.

She made her debut as an actress in Rebelde, where she portrayed Guadalupe "Lupita" Fernández, who comes from a very humble family and gets the opportunity to study at the fictitious Elite Way School, one of the most prestigious schools in Mexico City, thanks supposedly to her excellent grades. Maite is also a member of the popular Mexican band RBD, which was formed during the recording of the series and became a phenomenon around Latin America, The United States, and parts of Europe. The other members of RBD (Dulce María, Anahí, Alfonso Herrera, Christian Chávez and Christopher Uckermann) were also cast in Rebelde.

It is reported that one of Maite Perroni's favorite hobbies is roller skating.

While performing during "Dick Clark's Rockin' New Year's Eve" Maite sported a short black bob.

Maite Perroni is engaged to the RBD band director Guido. Their wedding date has not yet been set due to tour dates, the sitcom related to RBD, and an upcoming film.

Why Young Marriages Fail

There are lots of marriages that fail but among these, the incidences of divorce among young and married individuals are very much apparent. Age may not be a major factor for successful relationships to be guaranteed but it cannot be denied that there are also elements that become the reasons why marriage among young individuals end up as failures.

Some of the most common reasons for the failure of young marriages are as follows:

• Romanticizing: The tendency to romanticize marriage among young individuals. Usually they have very high expectations from their spouses but when reality strikes that married is not a bed of roses and far from what "fairy tales" tell, disappointment occur causing individuals to find no better option but to stay out of the marriage bond.

• Young Age: Teen marriages contribute to high incidences of divorce. Maturity plays a crucial role for people to stand by the major decisions that they make. Young age and immaturity are common factors why major decisions are hurried only to end up failing to take on the challenges and survive the problems that usually come with marriage.

• Neglect: There are young individuals who may find it really easy to go against the roles that they are supposed to play. Abandonment happens when a person decides to stay away from the relationship especially if age and maturity cannot contribute enough to make one capable of fulfilling important obligations.

• Hidden Sexuality: There are cases when young individuals realize it later that they have to "come out" and reveal their hidden sexuality even if it will affect the marriage. Identity crisis is one of the things that young individuals experience and when not resolve, it may even become the reason why marriages are better off

How to be single and happy

Being single is not anything to be ashamed about in our age! We live in a time when most relationships break up and there is no guarantee that even the best ones will last.

Take charge of your reality and give up all that envy! Stop worrying about everyone else around you getting into relationships, and thinking that you need to as well. 

Focus on becoming the best person you can be. ,Go out shopping, hanging out with your friends or just do whatever your hearts wants you to

Realize that you are luck and fortunate
If you are depressed and think you are not lucky because you are single, think again

Expert Advice for the Newly Single

Be conscious of what you tell yourself. Negative, dangerous thoughts like 'I'm too old' or 'who'll want me after what I've been through?' keep us from moving forward. Cultivate an optimistic attitude, and more good things will happen.

Rihanna in tears over Chris Brown

Rihanna shed her tough girl exterior when discussing ex-boyfriend Chris Brown during an interview with Oprah Winfrey on her television show "Oprah's Next Chapter." The pop star's eyes were welled with tears as she described having conflicting feelings about Brown after he assaulted her in 2009.

"I lost my best friend," Rihanna explained during the emotional conservation filmed in her home country of Barbados. "Like everything I knew was switched. Switched in a night. And I couldn't control that. So I had to deal with that, and that's not easy for me to understand or interpret. And it's not easy to interpret on camera, not with the world watching."

Rihanna breaks down when discussing Chris Brown on "Oprah's Next Chapter."Rihanna said all of the negative attention made it even more difficult to clear her mind. "So it's hard for me to even pay attention to my mind and figuring things out because it now became a circus."

[Related: Rihanna receives 5 MTV VMA nominations]

Despite being upset with Brown she also felt a need to support him. "I felt protective," she said. "I felt like the only person they hate right now is him. It was a weird confusing space to be in because to be as angry and as angry and as hurt and betrayed, I just felt like he made that mistake because he needed help, and who's gonna help him? Nobody's gonna say he needs help. Everybody's gonna say he's a monster without looking at the source. I was more concerned about him. "

Rihanna fought back tears during the one-minute teaser clip from the "Oprah's Next Chapter" episode airing Sunday, August 19, at 9/8c.

[Related: Watch Chris Brown's new video with Brandy, "Put It Down"]

When speaking about Brown, the "Where Have You Been" singer appeared vulnerable, a striking contrast to the angst-fueled attitude she has championed in numerous  songs ("Russian Roulette," "Hard," "Man Down") she released since the incident.

Rihanna, Oprah

Ten steps of making a happy family

1. Focus on outcomes not problems
2. Focus on feedback not failure
When sharing negative information always deliver it in a constructive way. Share how things could be better not how they went wrong

3. Focus on Possibilities 

- Possibilities are endless
Keep your family looking to the future and not to the past.

4. Understand roles

Clearly communicate that every part of the family has a role to play

5. Letting go of the belief that the parent must always be the leader

6. Be positive

Set positive goals that the family believes are achievable and worthwhile

7. Have clear visions

8. Continue to learn and grow

Things change so change with them. The world is not he same as it was last year or five years ago

9. Recognize people don't function in a vacuum Communicate - Communicate
10. Go after what you want

Action is better than words. Model this behavior and the rest of the family will do the same

How to be a good wife..

 it's up to you and your husband to determine theneeds of your relationship and how each partner can do their part to fulfill those needs--and here are some special guidelines to start off. However, remember that a marriage is a partnership, so your husband needs to make an effort too!

Janeth Manongi and her Husband Mr, Raymond Mkandawile 

Be secure in yourself.

 Putting yourself down in front of him is another way of insulting his taste in women. If he is with you, it's because he wants to be. He will find you beautiful even if you don't feel like it, if you act the part. Remember that attitude and willingness are large parts of being sexy. Poor self-esteem and a "void" in your life is terrible for marriage. Make sure you still have a fun and interesting life. If your husband left tomorrow, would you still have girlfriends you see at least once a month, hobby clubs you go to, sports you play? If not, your husband will always be working to fill a void he cannot fill,

Manage stress. Men and women deal with stress all day and every day. Do what you can to help each other deal with the stress of every day life. Making sure that you are able to cope with your own stresses will take pressure off of your marriage.

Give what he needs.

 If he needs sex, give sex to him in a way he wants it. If he needs his space, give him space. If he needs time to be with you, give him your time. If he needs you to listen, listen to every word he speaks including his unspoken words. If he needs respect, give him your respect. The key is to learn about your husband's needs. Ask him what his needs are. Then, give without condition. You give him because you love him and he deserves to be loved by you.


Keep your sex life interesting.

 Be sure to discussyour sex life with him. Also, don't be afraid to discuss anything you might be interested in. Physical intimacy is as important to a marriage as emotional intimacy. Nurture them both. Skin contact is our largest sensual organ

Accept him.

 Only by accepting him as he is, do you have such deep respect and gratitude for him that you would never want him to change in any way for you. He has so much to offer you if only you give him the space to be himself. He is a growing individual, just like you are. Help him grow in the direction that he chooses, and give him the chance to help you.

What is Love

 love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.  The term Platonic love, family love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships.

                 but Love is to 

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need